Rest Without Guilt: Relearning Safety for Black Women

For many Black women, rest is not neutral. Even when exhaustion is present, slowing down can trigger guilt, anxiety, or self-criticism. Thoughts like “I should be doing more,” “People are counting on me,” or “Rest is a luxury” surface quickly. This response is not a personal failure or lack of discipline. It is shaped by cultural expectations, family roles, and long-standing survival patterns.